Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT)
By: Dr Carla Kesrouani
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Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT)
Emotions are very crucial and play a big role in our lives. They, also, have a significant impact on our relationships. Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT) is a form of therapy that focuses on emotions and relationships. In this blog post, we will provide an overview of EFT and its benefits.
What is Emotionally Focused Therapy?
Firstly, emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT) is an evidence-based therapy that was developed by Dr. Sue Johnson in the 1980s. The therapy is based on the idea that emotions are the key to understanding relationships. EFT is a short-term therapy that typically lasts between 8-20 sessions. It is used to treat a variety of relationship issues, including communication problems, infidelity, and trust issues.
How does EFT work?
EFT is based on the idea that humans have an innate need for emotional connection with others. When this need is not met, it can lead to emotional distress and relationship problems. EFT aims to help individuals identify and express their emotions, as well as understand their partner’s emotions.
The therapy process involves three stages: de-escalation, restructuring, and consolidation. In the de-escalation stage, the therapist helps the couple identify negative patterns of interaction and understand the underlying emotions involved. While in the restructuring stage, the couple works to create new patterns of interaction that are more positive and fulfilling. Then in the consolidation stage, the couple solidifies their new patterns of interaction and learns how to maintain their emotional connection.
What are the benefits of EFT?
EFT has been found to be effective in treating a variety of relationship issues. Research has shown that EFT can improve communication, increase relationship satisfaction, and reduce conflict and distress in couples. EFT has also been found to be effective in treating individuals with depression and anxiety.
One of the unique aspects of EFT is its focus on emotions. By helping individuals identify and express their emotions, EFT can lead to a deeper understanding of oneself and one’s partner. This understanding can lead to a stronger emotional connection and a more fulfilling relationship.
Conclusion
In summary, emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT) is an evidence-based therapy that focuses on emotions and relationships. EFT is a short-term therapy that aims to help individuals identify and express their emotions, as well as understand their partner’s emotions. The therapy has been found to be effective in treating a variety of relationship issues, including communication problems, infidelity, and trust issues. By focusing on emotions, EFT can lead to a deeper understanding of oneself and one’s partner, which can lead to a stronger emotional connection and a more fulfilling relationship.