Thoughts Control & Mental Health

By: Dr Carla Kesrouani April 18, 2023 no comments

Thoughts Control & Mental Health

How to Control Thoughts for Better Mental Health and Well-being?

Our thoughts can have a significant impact on our mental health and well-being. Negative thoughts can lead to feelings of depression, anxiety, and low self-esteem. However, by learning how to control our thoughts, we can improve our mental health and well-being.

Identify Negative Thoughts

The first step in controlling thoughts is to identify negative thoughts. Negative thoughts can include self-criticism, worry, and rumination. Pay attention to the thoughts that come up throughout the day and notice when they are negative or unhelpful.

Challenge Negative Thoughts

Once you have identified negative thoughts, challenge them with evidence. Ask yourself if the negative thought is really true and if there is evidence to support it. Often, negative thoughts are based on assumptions or beliefs that are not necessarily true. Challenging negative thoughts with evidence can help you see the situation in a more balanced and realistic way.

Reframe Negative Thoughts

Reframing negative thoughts involves looking at them from a different perspective. Instead of focusing on the negative, try to find a positive or neutral way to reframe the thought. For example, instead of thinking “I’m going to fail,” reframe the thought to “I will do my best and learn from the experience.” Reframing negative thoughts can help you shift your focus from the negative to the positive and feel more optimistic.

Practice Mindfulness

Mindfulness is the practice of being fully present in the moment and paying attention to thoughts, feelings, and sensations without judgment. Mindfulness can help you become more aware of your thoughts and how they impact your mental health. Try practicing mindfulness through meditation, deep breathing, or yoga. Mindfulness can help you develop a more accepting and non-judgmental attitude towards your thoughts, which can reduce the impact of negative thoughts on your mental health.

Develop Positive Self-Talk

Positive self-talk involves using positive and supportive language when talking to yourself. It can help counteract negative thoughts and promote feelings of self-worth and confidence. Practice using positive affirmations such as “I am capable and strong” or “I am deserving of love and happiness.” Developing positive self-talk can help you replace negative thoughts with positive ones and improve your self-esteem.

Seek Professional Help

If you are struggling with controlling your thoughts, seek professional help. A mental health professional can provide guidance and support in developing strategies for managing negative thoughts and improving mental health and well-being. They can also help you identify and address any underlying mental health conditions that may be contributing to negative thoughts.


Controlling our thoughts is essential for good mental health and well-being. By identifying negative thoughts, challenging them with evidence, reframing them, practicing mindfulness, developing positive self-talk, and seeking professional help when needed, we can improve our mental health and well-being. Remember, controlling our thoughts takes practice and effort, but with consistent effort, it is possible to improve our mental health and well-being.



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