Helicopter Parenting
By: Dr Carla Kesrouani
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Helicopter Parenting
Helicopter parenting, a style of parenting that involves closely monitoring and controlling a child’s life, has become increasingly popular in recent years. While helicopter parents may have good intentions, this style of parenting can have negative effects on a child’s development and well-being.
Here’s a closer look at the negative effects of helicopter parenting on children’s development.
Lack of Independence
One of the main negative effects of helicopter parenting is a lack of independence. Helicopter parents may be so involved in their child’s life that the child does not have the opportunity to learn and grow on their own. This can lead to a lack of confidence and independence, which can have negative effects on a child’s success in school, relationships, and life.
Anxiety and Stress
Helicopter parenting can also lead to anxiety and stress for both the parent and child. Helicopter parents may constantly worry about their child’s safety and well-being, and may struggle to give their child space to grow and explore. This can lead to stress and anxiety for both the parent and child, which can have negative effects on their mental health and well-being.
Poor Social Skills
Helicopter parenting can also have negative effects on a child’s social skills. Children of helicopter parents may struggle to form relationships with peers, as their parents may be overly involved in their social life. This can lead to social isolation and a lack of social skills, which can have negative effects on a child’s success in school and life.
Decreased Resilience
Helicopter parenting can also lead to a decreased sense of resilience in children. Children of helicopter parents may struggle to handle adversity or failure. This happens as they have not had the opportunity to learn from their mistakes and develop resilience. Thus, this leads impacts negative effects on their success in school, relationships, and life.
Decreased Creativity
Helicopter parenting can also lead to a decreased sense of creativity in children. Children of helicopter parents may struggle to think outside the box or take risks, as their parents may be overly controlling and risk-averse. This can have negative effects on their success in school and life, as creativity and innovation are essential skills for success in today’s world.
In conclusion, helicopter parenting may have good intentions. However, it can have negative effects on a child’s development and well-being. Parents should aim to find balance between being involved in their child’s life and giving their child space and independence. Thereafter, they can grow and develop into independent adults. By doing so, they can raise happy, healthy, and successful children.
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